Obituary
Service Information
Service : Tuesday, August 16th at 2:30 pm
Service Location: Shalom Chapel Service -Shalom Memorial Funeral Home
Interment:
Shalom Memorial Park
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights
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August 26th, 2022
So many good memories of working with Shelly at the Brim Architectural office. Spending time with her and Jerry at SARA events. Visiting Hoover Dam in Las Vegas. Our heartfelt sympathy to Jerry and her entire family. Cathie & Sam. 💕
~Cathie Moscato
~Friends, Cosby
August 24th, 2022
Dear Brim Family,
My deepest condolences to your family. I, too, have fond memories of your loving wife and mother. My parents are blessed with her and Jerry’s steadfast friendship. As kids we used to love listening to them all kibbitz and laugh with gusto at memories of growing up during what always sounded like a magical time in Chicago. Shelley lit up any room with her smile and her generous spirit.
May her memory be for a blessing.
Sending love,
Valerie
~Valerie Flapan Canter
~Daughter of Judy Karpen Flapan, Ann Arbor, MI
August 16th, 2022
Dear Brim Clan,
My sincere condolences.
I first remember meeting your mom, (Jerry and Dana too!)at my bat-mitvah in 1976. Shelley’s style made such an impression on me. She was so glamorous!!. She and Jerry attended almost all five (all?) Flapan girl Bat Mitzvah’s, and a few weddings and birthdays over the years. I recall Shelley always dressed in a new gown and with new jewelry, usually to match, ha! However, her best accessory was her smile: big and bright. I will think of her fondly wearing glossy lipstick, smiling and in shoes ready to dance….and never more than 6 feet away from Jerry.
I am very sorry your loss. It’s going to be a big change. May her memory become a blessing for you all. It is for me. Cheryl
~Cheryl Flapan Lewis
~Daughter of Judy Karpen, Los Angeles, CA
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